When The Boys Are Away, The Girls Will Play…

HI FRIENDS!

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I can’t believe I haven’t posted since Valentine’s! Life has been crazy in the Beson/Wollinger household the past month and a half! Jim has finally returned home after being away in Louisiana for some training with the Army. &Boy was that time a whirlwind between this insane semester, and all the traveling and girl time I had!

Let’s go back to the day before I left for home. I was KILLING myself to get through the week and get all my homework done, before I left for Massachusetts.

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I had class until 7:30 and then I was up until about midnight powering through essays and finishing my marketing module, eating all the Girl Scout cookies I acquired between my coworkers child, the Girl Scouts at the PX and my friend Anna’s purchase at the commissary.

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&I was also praying all the frickin snow would end!

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I woke up bright and early and had some breakfast, packed up some lunch for the road and headed off!

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Once I finally got into town, my girl Caroline, was also traveling to MA from Drum to visit with family, met up with me for a fun night out! We were headed out to celebrate my best friend Alex’s 21st birthday and St. Patty’s Day! Carrie and I spent the afternoon grabbing bathing suits at Marshall’s to hang out in my brother’s hot tub (got the whole house to myself for the weekend!) &Gathering some pregame goods, including some ingredients to make “pot of gold jello shots” and of course a cake for Miss. Alex!

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photo from delsih.com was having too much fun to take a photo 😉

Cadence was all ready for St. Patty’s too!

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Carrie, Alex, my best friend Nicole and I did the girly thing and got all ready for the night together. Kyle would’ve loved it. A bunch of girls messing up his house with clothes everywhere and makeup and hair products. Good thing he doesn’t read my blogs 😉 LOL

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We finally headed into Boston +1 with Alex’s step Momma joining the party! Once we made it to West End Johnnie’s for drinks and dancing, I will shamelessly admit, that I paid off the bouncer so we didn’t have to stand in the freezing cold for an hour. We had the time of our lives dancing the night away, and drinking Goose and cran and just being 20 somethings…until about a ½ hour prior to last call some nasty dude with crusty lips in a trench coat (no joke) came up to me and started to try to dance with me. When I had informed him, I was all set and married, he whispered into my ear, “I don’t care.” I proceeded to shove him, and push us through the crowd to the other side of the bar. NOT OK.

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We all stumbled our way to the cabs, and headed to Bova’s!

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My sister in law had introduced me to this place on my 22nd birthday, and I will never not go there after a night out. Alex had requested we go all out, with the real 20 something clubbing Boston experience, though she was a bit cranky once we got there, her step momma and I headed in to face some hot pockets and cannolis. We grabbed an Uber XL back to the island, and I stuffed my face in the backseat, and chatted up our driver.

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boobs.

I was dead by the time we made it back to my brother’s house, but somehow my girls talked me into hot tub time at 2am. Nicole was passed out on the couch, and we were dumb enough to think 10 minutes was enough time to warm up the tub after turning up the temp, and ended up freezing our butts off in 30 degree weather…typical us.

The next morning was all about coffee. Dunks with Carrie, Starbs, and George’s Coffee

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I spent the next day just lounging around with my girls, Alex and Marissa. We grabbed some nachos and drinks at Jalapeños, and I picked up this AMAZING shirt for Jimmy’s Easter basket:

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For the rest of the night, we hung around in the hot tub (which we sufficiently managed to heat up) and played Never Have I Ever..;) watched some episodes of the final season of Girls and ate cake! There was no shortage of crap eaten on this trip..

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Sunday was family day! My Momma and I drove into New Bedford to see my Dad’s side of the family. Words don’t even describe how great it feels to be surrounded by your loved ones. Living so far from everyone hurts my heart. I miss dinners with Jim’s parents and sisters, and little brothers every Sunday, and spending Saturday nights hanging around with my brother. We typically only see a lot of my Dad’s side of the family once a year at our Annual Cookout. My cousin Elizabeth made so much good food, and I got to chat with my Aunts and Uncles and see my sweet Papa, and all my baby cousins!

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Momma and I headed back up to Fort Drum early Monday morning, but not after a quick visit for breakfast at the firehouse with Kyle!

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My Mom was coming up to spend the week with me, and then visit Montreal the following weekend! But that trip will be in my next blog post.

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I didn’t get too many photos, where I still had work and class all week, but we spent the week, having dinners with some of my girlfriends! We totally hit up Cracker Barrell more than once, once with Carrie and this cool dude:

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&Once with my sweet best friend Anna. &My Momma met my new girlfriend, Carissa, and her sweet girl Aria and we got dinner one of my favorite spots, Stefano’s in Carthage, NY.

 

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Sorry..def licked the canoli before I took this pic…

The rest of Jim’s time away was spent between work, school, Sundays with Anna doing church and lunch dates and Gilmore Girls and wine. &I had one girls night with Carrie, and a couple of other spouses at Drum, eating chips and brownies and doing face masks!

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Yes…yes we do have matching pjs.

I am so very happy my hubs is home, and hopefully here to stay for a while. &Congrats to the handsome dude too, for graduating Air Assault School while he was there! 🙂

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I have so many adventures planned for this summer to explore NNY. I mean, a list, literally a mile long. &I’m excited for my next post, recapping my Montreal trip with Momma B! I hope you all are having a wonderful week. &If nobody told you yet today, you are beautiful.

//xo

Happy Hump Day!

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Welcome Home Jimmy!!!

HELLLLLOOOO GUYS!

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It’s been a bit! I know I promised a Game Day recipes post a ways back. But  I had a little bump in the road, where I had a great opportunity with an awesome sponsor..but we just couldn’t agree. I got really hard on myself for a while, and was thinking to myself–where is the blog going? Do I want to stop it all together? Do I want to go full throttle, and make it more of a center piece, and make it a full time income? &The answer is still…I don’t know. I love blogging. It’s my favorite hobby. It keeps me sane, it keeps me excited, and it gives me so much opportunity to connect with people I would have never had the ability to before. It’s such a wonderful creative outlet, and I don’t ever want to hate it. But yeah. So I think maybe later on next week, I might post some more rambles, but for todays post….JMMY IS HOMEEEEEE!

I wasn’t sure if I wanted to do the whole photographer thing, but then I realized…“Who am I kidding? Im Autumn Benson…when do I not go overboard?” I was sooo happy when I had reached out to a lot of talented photographers in the Fort Drum area, and found that Marissa Frederick had an opening! I have been admiring her work since before we moved here, and when she had an opening, I HAD to jump on it.

Marissa did such an amazing job capturing one of the most special moments in our lives. Jimmy came home from his first deployment. Though we were lucky this wasn’t a long one, that didn’t change the worry in my heart, the restless nights, the pit in my stomach..and the absence of my other half weighing on me.

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This photo is actually from the photographer for 2-87 ^^^ The rest are all Marissa 🙂 

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Wesley realizing it’s BOBO!!!

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Since then we have just been enjoying each other and life is back to normal! We went home to MA to visit family. Had dinner at the Wollinger’s in honor of Jim’s coming home.

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Jim and his dad give me life:

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&Spent some time with the Benson fam, as my Daddy was honored along with all the other Gold Star Families in Massachusetts with a beautiful statue in Taunton, MA. We didn’t end up going to the ceremony, because I just knew it would be too emotional for me right now. But I am so blessed and honored by my Father’s sacrifice for this country. I am so proud to be a part of both the Benson/Wollinger families.

Also, we celebrated this little cuties 2nd birthday!

Oh yeah! &We had our closest friends up here come over for the Pats game, made some yummy food and just hung out 🙂

 

Wesley booping Sheppy^ So adorable!!

So that is all for now. I hope everyone enjoys their long weekend. I know I will. I am very excited to be spending time with Jimbob and my Cadence. Until next time! ❤

“If your dreams don’t scare you, they aren’t big enough.”

//xo

PS–Im a blonde again!!

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PS PS–LOOK AT THESE CUTE TARGET DOLLAR SPOT FINDS:

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Ugly Sweater Weekend Recap

Hello beauties!

How was everyone’s weekend? I feel like Monday has been my official posting day for the month of December. Alsooooo SUNDAY WAS TAYLOR’S BIRTHDAY YOU GUYSSSSSSSS. 

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So..I sometimes feel that I dread getting through weekends with out Jim. Weekdays are a little easier because they’re filled with work, meetings, homework and whatever else needs to get done. I’m always going, going, going. &Most weekends I fill with plans with family and friends. But sometimes, during the holidays its hard to make plans, so I end up hanging around my room a little too much. But I actually had an incredibly fun weekend!

Friday night I went to Target for make up wipes and concealer, and like all trips to Target, that’s not all I walked out with. But, tis a good thing, as I ended up wandering around the mall and got some Christmas shopping done! Once I got home, I figured the bathroom needed cleaning….and I spent the rest of my Friday jamming’ out to some Christmas music and inhaling the lovely fumes of bleach. I’m the Monica Geller of the group.

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I also found this meme while scrolling through Facebook, that definitely defines my life recently….

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My Saturday was actually a lot more exciting! Saturday was the Wollinger Ugly Sweater Party!!! I had, so, so, SOOOO much fun at this party. Jim’s fam never disappoints. There was so much food, and laughing, and love. I’ve never felt so much love in one building. Jimmy truly has given me a second family, and I couldn’t be more blessed.

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I also made a really simple cheesy buffalo chicken dip, and I’ll share that recipe later this week…I tried something new, and wasn’t sure how it would go over, but everyone gobbled it right up!

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I’m telling you, there is never a dull moment with this family. I LOVE ever single one of them, but Nana Jan has a special place in my heart.

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The winner of the ugly sweater contest went HANDS DOWN to one of the Wollinger cousins who walked in with a sweater covered in pictures of Karla, Jim’s younger sister stating…”You said ugly sweater.”

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Sunday I couldn’t pry myself out of bed until 11, but ended up running to the mall shortly after, and grabbing the LAST of my Christmas gifts. (Now I just gotta get to wrapping!) and went to see Suffragette. It was AMAZING. &Reminded me of the incredible strength and power us women have when we band together. That movie was so powerful, and the suffragette movement is so inspiring. Always fight for what you believe in.

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Later on Sunday night I spent some time with my two favorite forms of birth control, Jim’s little brothers. We made popcorn in my fancy new popcorn bowl (the ones that you put the kernels straight in the bowl) and watched another Christmas movie. Well, not so much watched as, made a mess with popcorn, jumped all over the bed, argued about pillow forts, and made me Google facts about cavemen, and football scores. Gotta love little boys.

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So…instead of leaving you with the usual inspirational quote, I wanted to share this post, I shared on all of my other social media.

I’ve seen so much nastiness just out of left field the last few days from so many women. Women need to be strong, and raise each other up. Being nasty, does nothing but project negative energy on your part. You’re hurting no one but yourself, and your own reputation. Learn to take the high road ladies. &Lift each other up. Wonderful things happen when we are kind and support one another. #girlpower

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//xo

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